When someone dies, there will be pain because of the unfinished conversations we may have with the dead. Only our prayers will be with them.
But when the person is still alive but has to remain like a dead person to us, it’s more painful and difficult to live because we may not have parted amicably with unless you destroy all the physically available memories for the sake of I don’t know who and don’t know what.
If there is uncertainty about difficult decisions, always solat istiharah every night until you get an answer. Allah knows what’s best for us all.
